Elegant, Sophisticated, Informally formal, Memorable
Relax. Do not plan your day with military precision as it will all go to quick and things will go too quick. There are 3 really important times, the most important is your ceremony time, and the other 2 are your meal times and only important so the food does not spoil. beyond there, just let the day happen. And trust the professionals on your day.
if they are still around, its the grandparents for me every time. I have taken so many pictures of some of the nicest people with a little tear in their eye, that has turned out to be the last picture taken of them.
Umbrellas, smiles, and a sense of adventure!